
I can read bedtime stories till the cow jumps over the
moon and sing "Ten Little Monkeys" until I want to
call the doctor-- but if I don't have love, I'm as
annoying as a ringing phone.
I can chase a naked toddler through the house while
cooking dinner and listening to voice mail, I can fix
the best cookies and Kool-Aid in the neighborhood, and
I can tell a sick child's temperature with one touch
Of my finger, but if I don't have love, I am nothing.
Love is patient while watching and praying by the
front window when it's 30 minutes past curfew.
Love is kind when my teen says, "I hate you!"
It does not envy the neighbors' swimming pool or their
brand-new mini van, but trusts the Lord to provide
every need.
Love does not brag when other parents share their
disappointments and insecurities, and love rejoices
when other families succeed.
It doesn't boast, even when I've multi-tasked all day
long and my husband can't do more than one thing at a
time.
Love is not rude when my spouse innocently asks, "What
have you done today?"
It does not immediately seek after glory when we see
talent in our children, but encourages them to get
training and make wise choices.
It is not easily angered, even when my 15-year-old
acts like the world revolves around her/him.
It does not delight in evil (is not self-righteous)
when I remind my 17-year-old that he's going 83 in a
55-mph zone, but rejoices in the truth.
Love does not give up hope.
It always protects our children's self-esteem and
spirit, even while dealing out discipline.
It always trusts God to protect our children when we
cannot. It always perseveres, through blue nail
polish, burps and other bodily functions, rolled eyes
and crossed arms, messy rooms and sleep overs.
Love never fails! But where there are memories of
thousands of diaper changes and painful labor(s), they
will fade away..
Where there is talking back, it will (eventually)
cease.
Where there is a teenager who thinks she knows
everything, there will one day be an adult who knows
you did your best.
For we know we fail our children, and we pray they
don't end up in therapy, but when we get to heaven,
our imperfect parenting will disappear.
When we were children, we needed a parent to love and
protect us. Now that we're parents ourselves, we have
a heavenly Father who adores, shelters us and holds us
when we need to cry.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love.
But the greatest of these is love.
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