
Today at church there was a baptism. The baby boy was adorable, in his little white satin suit and matching hat. Of course his parents and family were dressed like they were going to a wedding. Over here baptisms are viewed as a big family affair. In a way that's good. It is the most important day of a Christian's life. It should be a huge celebration. However, in pure Lebanese style, it turns into a side show.
Our pastor back home who married us and baptized the Boss (not at the same time...LOL) did NOT allow cameras during services except under restrictions. For weddings, video cameras had to be stationary. No walking around and distracting anyone or taking the focus off where it rightly belonged. Same for still pictures. No flashes too. Those were for the formal pics before or after the service.
For baptisms he was even more strict. No pictures during the baptism. It's during a church service and that is no place for cameras to be going off.
Here in Lebanon it's a free-for-all. Photographers have no respect at all for proper church behavior. Our first visit here Baba and I attended a wedding. The photographers were up in the priest's face and practically shoving him aside to get pics of the couple. The priest even made comments during the homily about the photographers' behavior but they went unheeded. The view is that the couple is paying for pics and they're going to make sure they do what they're hired to do. Talk about a screwed up sense of priorities!
At the church we attend here, the pastor isn't as strict on pictures and that doesn't bother me too much...until today. Normally there's someone in the family taking pictures from the bottom of the stairs. Usually they're not too much of a distraction and it's easy to understand why parents would want pictures of this.
When we were here for the Peanuts' baptisms, at a different church, there were 2 or 3 friends taking pictures and walking around to do it, but it was a little different. In the Maronite church baptisms don't take place during the mass. They are scheduled for other times (the Peanuts' were after mass) so our friends weren't bothering the congregation. Everyone there was there for the baptisms and didn't mind the cameras. Besides, they were also all Lebanese and apparently immune to cameras flashing anyway.
Today's baptism was horrible. Not the baptism itself, of course, but the photographers. They kept taking pictures during the service, long before the baptism itself. The family was sitting in the front row (the baptized children and families always sit there) and the photographers kept getting up and standing in front of them to get pictures. Even during the sermon! I keep saying photographers...one was for still pictures and the other was taking videos.
During the baptism they were right up there with the pastor, the representative of the congregation (I don't know if he's an elder or what exactly-we're not Presbyterian so I'm not familiar with the workings yet), and the family. When one of the family members who happens to be a toddler was allowed to go and dig through one of the huge camera bags, I wasn't sure whether to be upset by the lack of proper supervision by his parents or somewhat satisfied that the rude photographer was going to be taught a lesson. OK, that's sounding a bit unChristian, but you really should have been there to see this. It was unbelievable! A complete lack of decorum. If I'd been the mom of this child and the photographers were acting like this, I'd have told them to remember where they were. But I'm not entirely certain she remembered where she was herself, quite frankly.
I know this sounds pretty waspish. I'm sure the couple is perfectly nice. But nice doesn't make up for lack of good sense. This was a baptism, not a wedding reception. This was a church service, on the Lord's day, not a party. We were not all in church for them...we were there to worship God. (I'm sure few people knew there was a baptism today until they saw them take their seats.) It's very difficult to worship when there are people running around with a complete lack of respect for God and His church.
OK, off my soapbox now.








